A Stars Align Bodywork session is rooted in the understanding that your body’s sense of safety and ease is top priority. My sessions prioritize a person’s physical and emotional safety over any musculoskeletal release. I utilize consistent communication, informed-consent, and trauma-informed techniques to bring the nervous system to a place of safety and relaxation. This allows for a deeper integration of any musculo-sekeletal release.
On the surface, someone might not be able to tell that a Stars Align session is trauma-informed. My techniques, rooted in Deep Tissue and Swedish massage, help to unwind holding patterns and release tension.W
What makes a Stars Align session unique is possibility for clients to be in more control over their session, in order to promote a sense of safety. Clients can:
- Keep all or any of their clothes on.
- Remain in a face up position the entire time.
- Keep their eyes open.
- Stay in conversation with me the whole time.
- Request a brighter, more well-lit space.
- Dictate which areas of the body are okay to touch, and which are not.
- Bring a close friend to stay near.
- Pause, slow, or stop the session completely for any reason.
If your body does not feel safe, it cannot heal.
If you’ve ever left a massage more tense than when you arrived, or noticed a lot of anxious ruminating thoughts during a session, or often feel like a massage is something done to you, a trauma-informed massage, sensitive to a client’s hyper-vigilance or anxiety, is highly recommended. Contact me to discuss your needs today.
Any person can benefit from a trauma-informed session, even if they’ve never experienced a traumatic event or navigate unresolved fight/flight/freeze responses. At the least, a session that prioritizes the nervous system can aid in deeper relaxation. At it’s most powerful, a trauma-informed session can bring about a greater sense of safety and peace in your body, leaving you feeling more connected and grounded- like you’re at home in your body.
So what exactly does a Stars Align session look like? The following is a step-by-step breakdown of typical session, with lots of flexibility and room to co-create a session tailored to you.
You can prepare for a massage by bathing and remaining makeup-free (I have to throw away any linens with cosmetic stains). As a first-time client, you should arrive 15 minutes early to allow for time to fill out an intake and medical history form. The form asks for personal information such as email, phone # and an emergency contact, just in case. It also asks for some health background so that I can plan a safe and effective massage. If you would like to receive it via email to fill out beforehand, please indicate so in your appointment request.
Stars Align Bodywork is located up on flight of stairs at Lyra House, a bodywork collective I founded. Clients will always arrive to a locked door and should knock gently. Because it is a shared space, there might be another session occurring simultaneously. Measures to protect sensitive conversations and a quiet atmosphere are in place. After hellos and filling out the intake form, we will spend a minute or two going over your answers so I fully understand your goals for the session. This is also a chance to use the bathroom before your session.
I am trying to offer a chance for clients to pay and book their next session before we begin, in order to create a more seamless exit. I noticed that asking clients to pull out their phones and wallet disrupted their state of deep relaxation afterwards. If I forget to ask, feel free to request to prepay!
Once in the private therapy room, I will show you where you can hang and store your personal items. I will ask that your cell phone be turned to “Do not disturb,” unless you need to be available. I ask clients to remove any bracelets, necklaces, large rings, and large earrings, but wedding bands and stud earrings are easy to work around.
I am trained to work with a completely nude client, only undraping the parts of the body I am working on. I am able to perform long, continuous strokes if there aren’t any items of clothing in the way. However, many people new to massage may prefer leaving underwear, or more, on. I can work with whatever makes you feel most safe and comfortable.
I exit the room to allow you privacy to undress to your level of comfort. I will usually ask clients to start face-down on the table, under the sheet and blanket, with their face in the face cradle and arms at their sides on the table. I can provide a relaxing massage in side-lying and face-up positions, too. After about 2 minutes, during which I wash my hands and forearms, I check with you before entering the room again. Once I make sure you are comfortable and warm, I put on some quiet music and get to work! I generally spend a few minutes introducing my touch and warming up with rocking and compressions through the sheet. I then securely arrange the linens to allow access to each area I work on, always keeping sensitive areas draped for modesty and warmth. I use organic sunflower oil or unscented lotion to allow for smooth gliding strokes.
I spend the first half of our session on the back of your body, then ask you to roll over so I can access the front of your body. Unless we have specified any particular areas you do *not* want me to touch, I work on every area except the groin, breasts, and abdomen. I am trained in abdominal massage, and clients are welcome to request it.
You may find that relaxing and ‘letting go’ comes easily to you during your first massage. Or, you may find that it takes quite a few minutes to become comfortable. Some people find it hard to ‘turn off’ their brain and there is an increase in racing thoughts. Focused breathing, like you would do in meditation, often helps in these moments. Still others find quiet in their mind and then suddenly, a brilliant idea is formed! I call those ‘Massage Table Epiphanies.”
All of these experiences of a massage are normal. There is no ‘correct’ way to receive a massage. If there is any pain or discomfort, though, I ask that clients inform me right away so I can adjust. My approach is to never push ‘past’ pain.
When your session comes to a close, I leave the room again to allow you privacy to dress. The first few minutes after a massage session may be disorienting, and I encourage clients to take their time getting off the table. I provide a warm steamed washcloth for which to wipe down and feel refreshed. You will meet me back in the sitting area to spend a moment with me, checking in about how everything went. I invite you to book your next session before you leave for a $10 discount, if desired. We settle the payment, and I ask you to walk intentionally to your vehicle and spend a few moments grounding back into your body before driving away.
If you still have questions about your first session, please contact me! I believe all people deserve nurturing bodywork, no matter their experience.